how is posting a selfie or taking a selfie being “self obsessed”? Is it wrong to love yourself or appreciate what you look like these days? If you fucking send hate to someone because they’ve posted a few selfies then you really need to go through a reality check because to find yourself even slightly attractive is a good and a magnificent thing.
my life got about a thousand times better once i stopped censoring myself
and by censoring i don’t mean i suddenly embraced indiscriminate swearing; i mean i stopped trying to sugarcoat my past or my feelings; i stopped lying by omission; i stopped having guilty pleasures; i began unabashedly enjoying whatever i liked; i became very honest; i cut out of my life poisonous people and negative ideals, and i am so, so much happier for it